The Chastity Interviews

My favorite teasing technique is playing to their weaknesses and fetishes of my chaste submissive. If they like stockings and suspenders, I describe mine, or have them show me their favourite pictures and stroke to them. Talk to them, tell them what I would do if they weren’t denied, if they weren’t submissive, if they were real men.

I love the moans and groans, the begging. If he’s bound, I love to see his hands straining against his ties. The freely flowing precum is hot! On the other hand, I get tired of hearing about how horny he is all the time, and when the begging becomes whining, I get annoyed.

I have a T&D edging game I like to play that works on both mind and body levels. I masturbate my husband to the point of coming … then when he’s close to the edge stop … then start again … and stop … then start again … you know the kind of thing … endless fun, lol. Finally he asks permission and I deny him, but this time I don’t stop my hand movements. Or I begin to move my hand with strong, painful movements. Or I stop altogether and all stimulation vanishes … So of course he comes, trying desperately not to, again ruining sensation. This provides the opportunity for me to use the classic line “I didn’t give you permission … you’re in serious trouble now!”

Have you ruined your partner’s orgasm before, and if so, how did he/she react? How did you react?

oh yes many times. I react with a smile and some giggling to add a little humiliation to the feeling of dread he gets lol. He reacts the same every time. Eyes wide open with a look of terror mixed with desperation.

I would love the opportunity to torment him night after night, while denying his orgasm. I would play to his submissive tendencies and have him bring me wine to drink, run my bath, wash my hair, give me massages, and rub my feet. All the while, I would make teasing little comments about him having to wait until I was ready for him to come. I would brush against him, accidentally brush my hand across his cock, etc. By the time I allowed him to come, he would practically be desperate with need. That sounds so yummy to me!

I first became interested in orgasm denial quite a few years ago with an old boyfriend/lover of mine. I realized very quickly the delicious power I had over his cock and how I could easily control it. It was so simple to break him down till he was begging. Begging for anything. Once I had a taste of that, there was no turning back.

What makes you decide when to take control of someone’s orgasms?

The individual. To me, it’s the connection and the personality. If I’m putting a man in chastity… “that’s mine, it’s locked, I have the key”. It’s a very intimate connection. “That’s mine, its caged, it’s IA’s - Insatiable Amazon’s.”

Please describe your favorite technique for teasing your chaste partner?
Oh, I love to come close to touching either his chastity device or his balls sticking out from the CB3k ring. I can see the effect it has by how big his eyes get and how his breathing speeds up. Its quite a power trip to be able to lean back and laugh and tell them that no, they don’t get to have their penis touched today.

The Basics:
I am a:
Woman
I identify as:
bi-sexual
My partner is:
male
My interest in chastity is personal or professional?
both
Do you practice orgasm control or orgasm denial?
both
When did you first become aware of your interest in orgasm denial?
Many years ago.
What is the longest time you’ve kept a partner in chastity?
with or without milking? Most scenarios in life as with chastity […]

The Basics:
I am a:
Goddess/Woman
I identify as:
Polly Queer
My current slave is:
biologically a boy, but looks better in skirts than I do. (okay, not really..)
My interest in chastity is:
Personal
Do you practice orgasm control or orgasm denial?
Both
When did you first become aware of your interest in orgasm denial?
I was a catholic girl so I’d have to say about […]